Jan 26, 2013

Kimbap, Traditional Music, Dance & Food and Jijitsu


Friday, January 18th, 2013 – Friday, January 25th, 2013

One of Aimee’s co-workers had a potluck on Friday night.  It was a lot of fun and everyone brought really yummy food.  Aimee made a Korean food called Kimbap and I watched her make it/rolled one myself.  It has carrot, egg, ham and radish in it. 





On Saturday, Casey, Aimee and I went to watch traditional Korean dancing and music.  It was done at a theater and every Saturday they have a slightly different venue with different types of traditional dancing and music.  They did a total of seven performances, each demonstrating a different dance or music performance.  The performers wore traditional clothing and they used different types of instruments.  The one we all liked the most involved around 5 women, in traditional clothing, playing drums in-sync and spinning their body around so they were playing the drums from the back at times and arching their back to reach the drum.  It was really interesting to watch every performance.

On Sunday, Aimee and I signed up for a self-defense class.  It started at 12:15pm and we were in the class until 4:30!  We had two instructors; one was actually from Toronto and went to Carleton.  That instructor taught us how to punch.  The other instructor taught us jujitsu moves.  We learned how to get out of a choke and how to strangle someone.  We also learned how to get out from under someone, how to elbow someone and other practical information to avoid getting into any of those situations in general. After the class, we went out for Indian food with the jujitsu instructor and another student in the class. 

Since we enjoyed the self-defense class, when we were told they were starting a women’s jujitsu class on Tuesdays and Thursdays we decided to give it a try.   So far we have learned how to break a fall, how to get from a vulnerable position to a more dominant position and other practical knowledge.  It has been a lot of fun and good exercise.  My body is adjusting to the class still and after the first 4 -hour class on Sunday, I was pretty sore.  I am getting a little more used of it.  Right now, it is two days a week but it might be increased to three days a week next month. 

Friday night, I was invited last minute to eat at my director’s apartment with my co-workers after work.   It was so fascinating to see what a typical homemade Korean meal consists of.   With every meal they eat Kim chi, which is normally a type of cabbage marinated in a spicy sauce and she had four different types.  She also gave me a small bag to bring home and now my apartment is starting to smell a bit haha.  She also had a bowl of de-clammed oysters, a small bowl of miny scrimp.   A plate with fresh seaweed and more cabbage, a grilled fish with the eyeball still one it, yellow bean soup, fish rice cake, rice, tofu, a plate with raw garlic, jalapeños, and onion and finally stem cooked pork with a couple of dipping sauces for all of the above.  She also made an alcoholic drink using Soju and pomegranate seeds.  It seemed like a lot of food for one meal, but it is apparently pretty standard.   Traditional Korean food is extremely healthy, except they leave a lot of the fat on the pork.  For dessert we had fruit: permissions, Korean pear (giant round fruit that has the texture of an apple but the taste of a pear) and apple.   After dinner, they showed me the director’s bed, which is flat marble that is heated.  Some people, like my director, sleep on hard marble with no mattress and this is also very traditional.  My first thought about sleeping every night on a rock hard surface is "ouch" but I guess you get used of it.

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Jan 21, 2013

What A View!

Saturday, January 12th, 2013

Casey, Aimee and I went to Busan Tower for the afternoon.

The tower is located on top of a big hill.  They have an escalator which goes most of the way up the hill, into the park.  We had trouble finding the main entrance and came in through the side and walked up the hill ourselves.We went around dusk so that we could see the view during the day and at night.  We also explored the little park surrounding the tower at the top of the hill.

If felt nice to be out in the open air and away from the traffic, congestion and noises.  I heard birds chirping on the climb up.  Normally, hearing the birds chirp would not be such a foreign noise to me, but living in this city, I immediately detected the familiar sound I used to hear on a more regular bases.




CN Tower







Jan 17, 2013

Daily frustrations


I have been getting some good feedback about this blog and a few people have mentioned that it seems like I am having an amazing time here so far!  I would like to start of by saying that while yes, that is true, I mostly blog about the highlights and leave out the boring day-to-day things.

This post is going to mention some of the less appealing parts of my journey and just things I have noticed in general based on my experiences so far.

#1 The Shower

As I have already mentioned, I have a hose shower that is the middle of the bathroom and makes the entire bathroom wet. To use the hose, I turn the normal sink faucet into the shower faucet by turning a little knob to the left.  It has taken me until now to remember to turn the knob back!  I will be innocently washing my hands, when the shower hose will violently spray water out and get the almost dry floor wet again!  It shocks me every time too.   Although I am now cognitively prepared to check to make sure I have turned the knob back to the right, I still wince every time I turn on the sink, and I still forget to turn it back every once and a while and kick myself for it!

#2 Korean Internet

Although my Internet has worked wonderfully, it sometimes sets to Korean.  I am not sure if anyone has noticed that this blog is partly in Korean.  If anyone has tried to write a comment, I have not received it, probably because it was not clear where the comment section was.  The only successful comment written was by my American Korean friend (thanks for the comment by the way) and anyone else who has attempted one, I appreciate the effort and I am sure it was a great comment!

#3 The Smell

Busan has an out of date sewage system, so sometimes the city smells like really bad sewage.  This is especially prevalent along my street, which has a lot of sewage grates along the street.  Right now it is winter, the smell is under control, come summer I might be holding my breath a lot.  I also live on a hill so it will be tough making the hike up the hill, in the hot, humid summer, while holding my breath!


#4 The Manners

Let me start by discussing the driving.  The driving in Korea is extremely aggressive.  As I have already mentioned, the motorcycles drive right on the sidewalk and they barely slow down for people.  They also will use the pedestrians walking light to cut across the street while it is full of people.  Finally, they will drive through a crowded market, honking the crowd out of their way. 

The cars are aggressive too and the red light is just a suggestion in many cases.  If you are walking on the side the street, they sometimes won’t go around you and will basically brush your shoulder so they don’t have to slightly move.

Some of the people are also aggressive while walking and will run into you when the situation could have easily been avoided.  On the subway, 90% of the people sitting down are glued to a Smartphone.  I feel so out of the loop when it comes that that.  Also, when it comes to public transportation, there is no hesitation when it comes to other people getting on first and reserving their seat even if you were clearly standing there waiting for a while.  

Taking the bus is crazy too.  The bus drivers are no exception when it comes to being aggressive drivers.  I like to pretend I am practicing my balance every time I take a bus.  You get jerked around so much, it almost feels like the driver is playing a game to see how rough the ride can be and you are just a piece in that game.

Sometimes when you are walking down the street, a man will hack really loudly and spit on the ground.  They do it so violently and loudly it sounds like they are going to lose their tonsils and it makes me cringe every time.

Finally, as a part of Korean culture, one of the first questions someone will ask is “how old are you.”  They ask so they know how to speak to the person.  Korean has different dialog for different ages.  It all comes down to respect, you respect someone who is older and you speak to them in a more formal way.  Many Koreans have asked me if this is considered impolite in my culture.  I said it depends, but it is not custom for that to be the first question you ask someone.  Although I haven’t come across anyone asking me my age when I first meet them, this is just a cultural difference I have been told about and it is completely normal here.


#5 Language Barrier

This is a more obvious obstacle that I must face and something I was well aware of before coming here.    It is a daily challenge but sometimes that comes with the package of living in a different country. If anything I am lucky that there is so many things that do have English translations and many places you go, there will be someone who has a little bit of English knowledge so you can get what you need accomplished.

In my own apartment, I don’t know how to work some of the appliances as well as I should because all of the buttons are in Korean.  While using the heat for my apartment and water, I must make an educated guess for changing any settings. 

The laundry machine is another story.  I have tried playing around with it a bit to create a more gentle washing cycle.  I don’t even know if my clothes are being washed in hot or cold water.  Once, when I got a bit too adventurous with the buttons, I accidently set it so that when the load was complete, all of my clothes were dripping in water.  I rug them as dry as I could and set them on my drying rack.  I get no natural sunlight in my apartment and my things were still dripping wet 36 hours later.  The best solution I had was to re-wash everything without changing the laundry settings so they had a chance of actually drying properly.  Even after that, it still took another 2.5 days for everything to dry all of the way. 

I will conclude with the fact that I found my first bug in my apartment last week!  That is the downfall to living alone, nobody to kill any creepy insects. I survived, but I hope not to find too many more!

On a brighter note, there are the lights in put in my room!  I love them :)




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The subway has toilets, which is awesome!  But they all mostly squatter toilets, I guess you get used of them.



Jan 12, 2013

Cat Café!


Saturday, January 5th, 2013 – Sunday, January 6th, 2013


We spend the afternoon at a Cat Café.  There was a cover charge of 7000 Won and that included one free drink.  The café was extremely clean.  You had to take our shows off outside and put on slippers.  They also had separate bathroom slippers. At the entrance they had little cubbies for our shoes and jacket. 















Most of the cats were friendly but none of them were overly affectionate.  A couple had scarves on their necks and that meant they were sensitive.  A couple of little girls were nice enough to give us a little piece of their tuna when we first arrived to feed the cats.  That was probably the most attention we got in return from the cats!

Another little girl asked us to pose in a photograph with her for a school project at her Academy. 



Before we left we also talked to a couple of ladies who were very nice and complimented us by telling us we were like angles.  They suggested some food to try in Korea.  It was funny because one of the cats that likes to sit on laps (two cats in the café will do that) insisted on sitting on the lap of the one lady who did not like cats.  Aimee and I were both begging it to come and sit on our lap but we were not so lucky. 


This is the cat we got the most kick out of





Her name is Momo  








After the café we met with a local and his younger cousin for dinner.  Aimee actually met Heewon while he was studying English in the US at her high school.  We went out for Korean food, so Aimee and I both had the chance to try some new food and learn more about Korea and Korean culture!



The next night, we went out for dinner with another foreigner, Jennifer, who Aimee met while she was working part-time at Aimee’s school.  She has been here for two years and counting and it was really nice getting to know her as well!

Jan 9, 2013

Happy New Year!


Happy New Year!

Interesting facts about Korea:

The day you are born, you are one year old.  January 1st, you become one year older.  So if you were born in December, you are one year old, come January 1st, you are two years old.  So you could be alive for only two months but also be considered two years old.   Therefore, for everyone in Korea, they are not only celebrating a new year, but also becoming one year older!  Apparently the people on the verge of becoming the drinking age wait outside the bars until midnight when they all turn a year older at the same time and are old enough to enter the bar!

On New Years Eve, Aimee and I went to a New Years party at one of Aimee’s co-workers apartments.  We ended up on the beach for the countdown with a slightly different group of people.  We shot off our own personal fireworks at midnight!  We were also asked to pose in a few photographs! 







After staying out a little bit longer, we returned to Aimee’s apartment for a little nap.  At 6:45 Aimee’s alarm went off.  We reluctantly got out of bed so we could watch the sunrise, I was little bit more keen than Aimee to make the effort to get up, promising her it was something she would not regret!  She now thanks me :)




We were not the only ones who made the effort.  The beach was filled with people young and old! Most people had a balloon at their fingertips but we were not in the loop as to where they were getting the balloons.  The beach had tents, a stage, drummers, and swimmers braving the cold water.  Did I forget to mention that not only was it the crack of dawn, we were also freezing cold waiting patiently for the sun to make its appearance.  At the first sight of the sun across the horizon, everyone let go of his or her balloon!  Some people attached messages to their balloon.  It was definitely worth the struggle to get out of bed to be a part of this experience!  Aimee then got to walk the one block back to her warm bed while I began my journey home on the subway with the other hundreds of people who came to watch the sunrise.














Jan 7, 2013

Four day weekends are the best!


Saturday, December 29th, 2012- Tuesday, January 1st, 2013

First I....

Met George Clooney


Then I had breakfast at Tiffany's


The next day I was in National Geographic Magazine


Finally, I watched the sunrise on New Years Day!


More to come on New Years!

Jan 5, 2013

All I want for Christmas is you


Monday, December 24th, 2012 – Friday, December 28th, 2012

The week of Christmas has arrived!  Did it ever come fast!  Christmas Eve was a normal workday for me.  Since Christmas is not a big holiday in Korea, none of the kids said much about it.  I continued ending class with Christmas carols, but other than that, it was a normal day.  Scott did invite Aimee and I to a Christmas Eve dinner, but we both had to decline the invitation for work.  That night I stayed at home.

Christmas day was a holiday and so we made plans with Casey and Amanda to spend the holiday together.  That morning, I opened a card from my cousin Samantha and my Grandma & Grandpa and an e-card from my parents!  My grandma also gave me a little package to bring with me and open on Christmas morning.  I also had the nice ornament my Grandpa gave me before I left.



Grandma's homemade candy!  Always thinking of me :)

After lunch, I met Aimee and we went to the beach.  My philosophy was if I can’t have a white Christmas, at least I am going to visit the beach for the first time on Christmas!  We had a lot of fun walking, collecting shells and taking more pictures.  We couldn’t stay long because we were meeting the other girls.  Amanda lives less than a 10-minute walk from Aimee’s apartment, which is awesome!   We made our way there along with our contributions to the Christmas meal.  Veggies and some pastries from Aimee, ham from me.  Soon after we arrived, Amanda and Casey started preparing a traditional Christmas meal with veggies, potatoes, ham and gravy.  We all stuffed ourselves!  For dessert Casey made some delicious chocolate cookies!  We talked for the rest of the afternoon and played some euchre!  Before leaving we watched a Christmas movie. Although Christmas was not the same I am used to, and I really missed my family, I didn’t spend it alone and we still had a lovely afternoon!  



Those guys wanted to go for a little Christmas dip


Christmas at the beach!